Here is a slightly opposing view. And in our fellow bloggers view, friends with benefits ends up with a lot of jealousy.
I think the jealousy is because we naturally desire deeper commitments …. we do not want, and we are not satisfied, with shallow commitments.
If we were satisfied with shallow commitments why would we devote our lives to WORK? Why would firefighters die fighting fires? Why would soldiers die fighting wars?
I think we desire, and deserve, deeper commitments than our society is giving US ….
Do you have the relationship you want in your life?