Anyone have a good idea?
I went to college with my friend, ‘G’.
We were best friends for a very long time. He helped me out as I tried to navigate the dating world. And I often failed.
There were always rumors he was ‘gay.’ But, he had girlfriends, and he didn’t bother me. So, I was good with that.
However, at his graduation, I saw him kissing a guy.
I am sorry, but that is not what a straight man thinks of as exciting.
Anyway, I got an email out of the blue asking if I was me. I looked at the email, and thought, “This is crazy. G is working in Denver. This is my only week to work in Denver.
Unreal. We met for dinner. And he did what he has done so many times since I found out, “I have always had a crush on you.” And then he batted his eyes.
I am so far from Gay, I might as well be a Martian.
But, as a friend, I really like the man. But, needless to say, more comments like that, and I am better off without his friendship. IMHO.
So, how do you get a gay man to be a friend, and only a friend?